The term friend zone implies that you are friends. Given that you rarely see this man in addition to his lack of communication with you, I feel comfortable saying, no, you have not been friend zoned. Either this fellow is inexperienced or he is socially impaired. Move on. He is wasting your time.
Let’s review this situation. Shall we?
You picked up a man in a bar. You spend a lot of nights together, presuming that he doesn’t cancel and he has a baby with another woman with whom he has a relationship.
I’ve been around the block, we both know that “nights” is code for sex. Here’s a tip for you,in this context, ” special” is code for free. So yes, he thinks you are special. Should you ever see him again? No,absolutely not. He is unworthy of you.
Most women who pick up men in bars and spend the night with them ,charge. Unless this is a summer internship for college credit, stop playing bar fly and work on your self esteem.
I’m going to go out on a limb here and assume that you live in your father’s house. I admire your spunky attitude. That will serve you well when you grow up. Until then, show a little respect. It’s the dead of summer, I’m fairly certain that you look hot. Now try to look like a lady.